Femme Fatal

I thought that it would be a good idea to talk aboutwell that the man who is paying for the support of
how we women are less than "above board" withher child is not the biological father of her child. That
men and relationships since I frequently discuss theis sooo unfathomable to me. SO UNFATHOMABLE!!
shortcomings of the male population. You ladies didn'tWhat for the life of me ever happened to
really think I had forgotten about you now didconscientiousness and high-minded values? Is it not
you?Oh, I get it. You must've assumed that since I"cool" in today's society? Shoot what ever happened
am a woman that you'd be absolved from criticismto deception being plain ole WRONG? Women's
right? Nooooot!!! Let's face it, you know it had to bebehavior today is not only off the hook or out of
a matter of time before good ole C. V. drops it likethe box, it's off the freaking CHAIN or better yet it's
it's hot right? Well here goes ladies so get prepared.Ifoff the darn MEATRACK. Christ it's just plain off!!We
you have been a loyal reader of my Blog or haveneed to THINK about how we have a hand in the
read or downloaded any number of my narrativesdestruction of our men. The cops and the judicial
that have been published on the internet then yousystem aren't doing it single-handedly ladies. Then we
have probably been privy to the factual accountswant to cry and complain when our men cheat and
that I have written openly recounting mymistreat us. What are we teaching them when we
experiences with men that are, let's say "not up tocondone inappropriate behavior? WRONG is as
snuff" in the relationship department or in theirWRONG does and we are far from being absolved.
personal lives in terms of being motivated for theTime to stop playing the role of the victim and time
enrichment of their own lives and/or honest withto start viewing life in a realistic manner. IT'S NOT
women.However, throughout the years it seems thatALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE MAN!!How can one
the female population has managed to play catch uplive with themselves? What happened to your heart?
in terms of deviousness. No not only have theyHas the world been so callous to you that you
caught up, an alarming amount of women havetactlessly take out your frustrations and
exceeded the male population when it comes toshortcomings on men? Is that going to make your
misleading, lying, conniving and exploiting men. Yeah Isituation or your life any better? I think not. What in
said it! And you know what? It's true and you knowthe world has happened to women today to force
it!!It's been said that men tell more lies but womenthem to be so thick-skinned?We're supposed to be
are more adept at it than men. Or try this one on forthe rib of men, their backbone, the one they can rely
size, "women are better at cheating and sneakingupon to make all the jagged edges smooth, make
around than men". Let's face it ladies we can be quitethe rough roads level. Our man should get a calming
calculating when we want to be. And a lot of us, aseffect from our mere presence or solely from the
regrettable as it should be, are taking our GOOD mensound of our voice. What's come of us??? What
for granted. Not only are we scheming, sneaking andabout "behind a good man there lies a good woman?"
cheating we are also abusing the good, the hardYoo-hoo? Good women where art thou???I often
working, the trustworthy, the man that is ismeet men who are extremely emotionally damaged
really-in-love-with-you, thebased upon the lies, and deceit that they've
-you type of man.These men come to us in the formexperienced from past relationships. So much so that
of husbands, boyfriends, common law mates,it would take the "new woman" trying to be part of
significant others, the distance relationship or anyhis life the assistance of a bulldozer in order to even
way that you can define the type of testosteroneget close to his heart. These men trust no one and
that is there for Y-O-U. You know the type ladies. Hethey become easily jealous and suspecting. How
can be categorized as the one who has your backunfair is that to a woman who wants to date and
when no one else does. This is the man whom youbuild a new relationship with them?What about the
go to when you want to get that hair done, or thoseman who has been physically violated by his woman?
nails manicured and those toes pedicured. WhenThese men rarely come to the forefront to discuss
you've paid all of your bills yet find you still have atheir vicious situations because it is not "the manly
financial obligation that needs to be taken care ofthing" to do. They keep stuffing it inside hoping that
whom may I ask do you go to? You go to "him" forthe pain and shame will go away. These situations
resolution don' t you? What about when you justpresent themselves each and every day. Now I'm
want to ask your sweetie for some pocket change.sure if the man that has been physically mistreated
These men willfully, without question or comment forby his woman were to lift his hand to strike her ONE
that matter pass the requested cheddar right intoTIME, she'd be knocked to her feet. We all know
your sweet little hands. These men, the ones thatmen regardless their size have more upper body
are as dependable as old hound dogs are beingstrength than a woman. But a real TRUE man does
jerked around by the likes of us. WOMEN!!!What typenot have to exercise his physical power. Hence, he
of example do we set for our children when wesuffers his maltreatment and humiliation in silence
manipulate the trust and respect that our man hashoping that his mate will one day see that he loves
for us when we negatively influence a "good thing"her and gets her act together before he finally gets
for our selfish and dishonorable means?? Shame onfed up and steps off....for GOOD!I am outraged each
you!! You know EXACTLY who you are!!!! Whattime I am approached with this topic. I know that
about morals and self-respect? Most believe that asthere is nothing that I can do to change it because I
long as he doesn't know what's being done to himam not every woman. I am only responsible for
that it won't hurt him. But YOU KNOW!! What aboutmyself, I can only change me. Nonetheless, I can give
that minor fact?? It should at least have some effectmy points of view, I can write as long as there are
on your actions based upon the love that he harborspeople like you that can read. And write I will!A lot of
for YOU in his heart don't you think!Now don't getwomen are no longer the sweet, the warm, the right
me wrong. I am by no means an angel in this. I toohand of the men in their lives. We have become the
have done my dirt in my life. But that was the C. V.Femme Fatals of the universe and it's a disgrace for
of yesteryear, I was young, stupid and irresponsibleall womankind. Are you one of them? Are you one
with the love of another. I failed to realize howof the deadly women of today? And deadly it is
infrequently "true love" passes my way and tookbecause not only do you kill the image for the honest
something so valuable, something so unique, forinnocent woman looking to achieve wedded bliss, you
granted. Thank God for personal growth!! Luckily, Ikill the hope, expectations and a man's desire for a
am no longer the same woman today. I now solicit,woman that he can TRUST!! Only you know the
want and respect a "love" relationship when I amanswer to this question. If you are one of them then
fortunate to get myself into one of em.I havetake a look at yourself. Take a real good look. Do
witnessed women go home on a Friday, entice theiryou like what you see? While you're at it, take a
man into making love to them (to enable their mangander at that man sitting over there next to you or
to falsely believe that when they go out "to hangsitting in the next room. He loves you. You're hurting
with the girls") that they are doing just that. Theyhim even if he doesn't know he's being hurt yet.
make love to their guy to give him a false sense ofEverything done in the dark ALWAYS comes to the
"I still want you type of deal". For the womanlight ya know. I am a firm believer in Karma and if
practicing deceit, we ALL know that's a flat out lieyou aren't a believer then maybe you should be.
right?? What about the man who works the nightAdmit it or not either you change the way you do
shift? Shouldn't he be able to trust that his woman isthings today or you'll pay for it twofold
at home holding it down instead of sneaking thetomorrow.Femme Fatal you may be but you can
mailman in through the back door he exits throughbecome a woman of dignity coupled with respect
the front?I recently heard a song in which the singerand more importantly, honor. It's never to late for a
tells the story of a woman that tricked a man intopositive change.(c) 2006 By C.V. Harris. All rights
believing a kid was his for eighteen years so that shereserved.C. V. Harris pens with ease what others
could get child support from him. How trifling iswould rather forget. She is currently writing her
that???? I can't for the life of me see how a womanMemoir.
can live with herself for eighteen years knowing full